a measure of detachment and freedom into your relationships and into your interaction with society generally. What this means primarily is that you require a lover to be a friend, for when such is the case, you are able to look at each other as human beings with individual ways of living rather than as being extensions of, and totally answerable to, each other. However, such a liberal attitude does require an individual moral code that you live by - as distinct from having no code at all.
Without this code - which is really a sense of commitment to your own principles that overrides emotional game-playing - relationships can float way on the breeze as free and easiness turns out to be a case of hedging your bets. In other words, not being committed to anything. If you are artistically inclined, you are drawn to the avant-garde. |
