and the values concerning them, very much in a traditional light. Unless something or someone is tried and true through the passage of time you're not likely to trust your sentiments, talents or possessions with them. This inflexible dependence that you have upon fidelity, constancy and 'work well done' ostensibly makes for your being quite reliable as you give value for money or time spent on you or paid to you.
But your insistence upon trustworthiness can become a blind to your own emotional shortcomings, that is, a distrust based on subjective fear rather than objective conclusion. What can ensue from this is either you or your partner suddenly being very unreliable; or your being without anyone at all; or severe limitations materially as a result of not giving more of yourself to the world; or marrying or being married for money or status rather than love. Track down the cause of any deep distrust and then you and others will be as reliable as you think you and they ought to be. |
