when performing as part of a group, or in the name of some collective goal. Without this you can be rather indolent because you cannot find it in yourself to go it alone - and neither do you want to be just another unit in the human mass.
What initially gets you going and sets you off on the road to self-confidence is having to rebel against, or break away from, something or someone which is hemming you in. You also like a sexual relationship to have a liberating effect upon you. In fact, you may enjoy sex more as an act of freedom than as an act of love or desire. |
